Some brutal life lessons people have learned in their lives.

What’s up, guys? ....... I hope you all are doing well. Today, I would like to share my views on “Some brutal life lessons people have learned in their lives.” First, we can’t change people. This is the truth, but the bitter reality of life, whatever we do; we can’t change other’s minds until they don’t want to change it. We can only try to change the other’s thinking. One thing we can do is, we can set an example of our life for others so that we can motivate them. Change yourself first and then try to change others. 

Always try to become an example of what you wish to see in the other people. Second, I don’t have any idea that this is right or wrong, but most of the time I have seen many individuals that care for others always disappointed by them. And then they felt they are the unluckiest people on the earth, but this shouldn’t be their opinion, Instead of this we have to do our work, whatever we are, and we should forget about all nonsense things. If we are doing all for an appreciation of others, then we are doing nothing. So focus on your responsibilities and try to be patient in every situation and decrease your dependency on others. 

The third is when in love, everyone becomes an idiot. I have heard this from so many people that they have been fooled by someone. But that person was your own choice. This is your life, if you are feeling unwanted in your relationship, then leave it and move on in your life. I think your life and your parents matter more than anybody. Be strong and independent so that you don’t need someone to live a peaceful life. Fourth is, no one will ever be able to make you feel loved unless you admire yourself. This is my favourite motto in life, love yourself first. 

And this is the reality also if you want to become a successful person, then you have to appreciate and improve yourself first. The fifth is we can’t always get what we need. This can be a fact, but we should try to get everything that we wish for so that we will not have any regrets about anything. Sixth is, we will all become unattractive and old in the eyes of society. This is also a bitter truth, but a fact of our life. The seventh, according to some people, life can’t figure out logically. They require empathy, honesty, and vulnerability. In my opinion, we have to be practical and logical in life so that we can take tough decisions on our life which nobody has dared to take.